Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life...And Maybe the World

It’s wonderful to share this story about finding strength and making a difference, even when things feel really hard. The book grew from a very special moment – a speech given to graduating students. The speaker, a retired Admiral who served as a Navy SEAL, wanted to leave them with something more than just congratulations. He took the university's motto, "What starts here changes the world," and thought about what it truly meant. He realized that big changes don’s always come from grand gestures. Sometimes, they start with small, everyday actions. He wanted to share ten simple ideas he learned during his SEAL training, ideas that helped him face tough times and achieve goals, and that anyone can use to improve their own lives and the world around them. I remember a time when I felt completely overwhelmed, like I couldn’t possibly do everything I needed to. It was a dear friend who reminded me to focus on one small step at a time. It’s that same spirit of manageable action that shines through this story.

The heart of the story lies in these ten principles. They're not complicated or lofty ideas; they're about things like making your bed every morning, finding someone to be accountable to, and understanding the power of optimism. The Admiral shares stories, both from his own life and from the lives of others he served with, that illustrate how these principles helped people overcome incredible challenges. He talks about facing danger, making difficult choices, and dealing with loss – all while staying true to their values. There’s a real sense of honesty and vulnerability in his sharing, which makes the lessons all the more powerful. One story that really stood out to me was about a young sailor who made a mistake with serious consequences. It wasn't about punishing him, but about helping him learn from it, and holding him accountable so he could grow. That kind of approach—focused on learning and growth—is something we can all apply to our own lives. The stories aren't meant to be perfect examples of heroism; they are real accounts of people struggling, making mistakes, and ultimately finding a way forward. It's a reminder that everyone faces adversity, and it's how we respond to it that defines us. It’s a gentle nudge to look for the good, even when it's hard to see, and to believe in our ability to make a positive impact.

Ultimately, this story is about finding hope and strength within ourselves. It's a comforting reminder that even in the darkest of times, we have the power to choose our attitude and actions. The Admiral doesn't promise that life will be easy, but he does offer a framework for facing challenges with courage, compassion, and a sense of purpose. It’s a book for anyone who wants to live a more meaningful life, to make a difference in the world, or simply to find a little bit of encouragement when they need it most. It's a beautiful blend of personal reflection and practical advice, delivered with a humility and optimism that is truly inspiring. It feels like a warm hug from a wise friend, offering a gentle push towards a brighter future, one small, deliberate action at a time.

It's a joy to share this story about finding the ability to handle tough times and contribute positively, even when things seem really difficult. It grew from a very special moment – a speech given to graduating students. The speaker, a retired Admiral who served as a Navy SEAL, wanted to give them something more than just a congratulations. He took the university's motto and really thought about what it meant to change the world. He realized that big changes don’t always come from big actions. Sometimes, they begin with small, everyday things we do. He wanted to share ten simple ideas he learned during his SEAL training, ideas that helped him face hard times and achieve goals, and that anyone can use to improve their own lives and the lives of people around them. I remember a time when my family was going through a really difficult situation, and it felt like everything was falling apart. It was so easy to feel helpless and overwhelmed. But my grandmother always said, "Just do one thing. Just one small thing." It's that same feeling of being able to do something, even when everything else feels impossible, that really shines through this story. It’s about finding that small step, that one thing you can do, and letting it build from there. It’s a message that has stayed with me through so much, and it's a message I think everyone can benefit from hearing. It reminds us that we're not powerless, even when we feel like it.

The core of the story focuses on these ten principles. They aren’t complicated or lofty ideas; they are about things like starting your day with a simple task, having someone to keep you on track, and believing things can get better. The Admiral shares stories, both from his own life and from the lives of others he served with, that show how these principles helped people overcome incredibly hard challenges. He talks about facing danger, making tough choices, and dealing with loss – all while staying true to their values. One story that really stayed with me was about a young person who made a mistake that had serious consequences. It wasn’t about punishment, but about helping them learn and grow, and holding them accountable so they could do better. That kind of approach—focused on learning and growth—is something we can all use in our own lives, whether it’s dealing with a mistake at work or helping a child learn from a misstep. The stories aren't meant to show perfect heroes; they are real accounts of people struggling, making errors, and ultimately finding a way forward. It’s a reminder that everyone faces challenges, and it's how we choose to respond that truly matters. It’s a gentle encouragement to look for the good, even when it's hard to see, and to believe in our ability to create a positive impact.

Ultimately, this story is about finding hope and strength within ourselves. It’s a comforting reminder that even when things are dark, we can choose how we feel and what we do. The Admiral doesn’t promise that life will be easy, but he does offer a way to face challenges with courage, kindness, and a sense of purpose. It’s a book for anyone who wants to live a more meaningful life, to make a difference in the world, or simply to find a little bit of encouragement when they need it most. It feels like a warm embrace from a wise friend, offering a gentle nudge toward a brighter future, one small, thoughtful action at a time. It’s a wonderful way to remember that even small things can make a difference, and that we all have the power to create positive change in our own lives and the lives of those around us.

Rating: 5.0 / 5.0

It’s lovely to share this story about finding strength and making a difference, even when things feel really hard. It came from a special speech given to graduating students, and the speaker, a retired Admiral who served as a Navy SEAL, wanted to offer them something more than just congratulations. He really thought about what it meant to change the world and realized that big changes don’t always come from big actions. Often, they begin with small, everyday things we do. He wanted to share ten simple ideas he learned during his SEAL training, ideas that helped him face tough times and achieve goals, and that anyone can use to improve their own lives and the lives of people around them. It's about finding that one small step you can take, even when everything feels impossible. It’s a reminder that we’re not powerless, even when we feel like it. The core of the story focuses on these ten principles. They aren’t complicated, and they are about things like starting your day with a simple task, having someone to keep you on track, and believing things can get better. The Admiral shares stories from his own life and the lives of others, showing how these principles helped people overcome incredibly hard challenges. Ultimately, this story is about finding hope and strength within ourselves, and it’s a comforting reminder that even when things are dark, we can choose how we feel and what we do. It's a wonderful way to remember that even small things can make a difference, and that we all have the power to create positive change.